DNA demanded it….
Chelsey’s started quilting. While I felt like she labelled me as the ‘dork’ of
the family—Quilting has become the ultimate in cool. It’s been a
great bonding moment for both of us. I don’t know who loves it more---
her or me for the fact that I get to share my ultimate passion with
her.
Every quilt I have ever
given her has taken on new meaning as for as quilting styles, binding
techniques, and lessons in piecing. She was given my old sewing machine when
she moved out. She’s dusted it off and we’ve tackle that first ‘
broken needle’ together. As I type this – I’m ordering a quarter inch
quilting foot for that machine--- to give to her.
‘Mom, I never really knew
how much time it took to make a quilt’.
‘Mom, I got all my fabric
from thrift shops --- and it’s still expensive…. I never knew’.
So many conversations that
she’ll probably never know how much they mean to me.
My family calls me ‘Aunt
Bee’. They’ll never call her that --- she wears the title ‘ Quilter’ with
pride and dares anyone to judge or tease her. Me--- I’ve never been
that brave….
We were sharing pins on
Pinterest - (quilt pins)…
I found a pin to share
I loved it. I told
Chelsey it reminded me of her--- it said, “ Stand out in a Crowd…. Dare to be
different”
She said we had to make
it. I researched and found the pattern. I sent it to her. She
texted back-“ I don’t know Mom--- looks like a quilt for someone with more
experience. I don’t think I could do it—maybe in a couple of years—just
not now.”
I hate being pressured –
and I have learned this about myself—quilting is my hobby on my own terms. I
hate ‘have to’s ‘ and I hate deadlines. I told her no big deal that
I got it, “ But Mom, you go on and make it.,” she said.
I just know she can do
it. So last night after eight o’clock, I pulled out my scraps – she just
needs a sample, plus I’ll decide how hard the pattern is. So this is my
canary (Because it is yellow)-
I wrote her a
letter—because she lives 100 miles away—and sent it. I told her to use it as a
sample, or maybe if she ever makes the quilt to possibly use it as a label for
the back.
I have to make this
quilt—because it reminds me of her…..