A young couple at work was expecting their third child. He'd worked there for two years. I asked around....was there a baby shower planned???. There had been several this year --- just wanted to get my timeline for the quilt in order. 'Melanie, it's their 3rd kid....we usually don't do anything."
I got it. I understood...but there was this thing inside me--- A third child is special. Don't forget the third child. So I went on choosing fabric and cutting it up. They planned on not finding out the baby's sex --- and truthfully I knew very little about this young engineer and his family. I chose Classic fabrics -- with the thoughts that mom could love the quilt long after the baby out grew it.
So a disappearing nine patch was the pattern and yellows, greens, and cranberries were the colors. I knew the due date and I didn't want to be late. I found out the day after the baby was born. Sterling was 7.5 pounds--- a little boy.
'Oh Melanie -- we're waiting on gifts..not know the condition of the infant..."
Honestly, if I had known about the baby's illness, I might have waited -- But I knew that little guy needed the love of a quilt more that ever -- and so did his momma. I held my breath -- but had no regrets on the timing. Sterling made it through and is home now with his big brother and sister
......and his handmade disappearing a nine-patch quilt.